What Are The Chances Of Getting Back Together With My Ex After A Breakup?

“Will my ex come back and what are the chances of getting back together with my ex after a breakup?”  If you’re going through a breakup right now, I’m sure this question (or a variation thereof) has crossed your mind.  For example…

Will my ex come back…

  • …after no contact?
  • …after 6 months?
  • …if I give him space?
  • …if I give her space?

Will My Ex Come Back To Me?Unfortunately, there’s no easy answer.  Well, there is, but you aren’t going to like it.  The easy answer is, “It depends”.  It always depends because every single relationship and every single breakup is different and has its own set of unique problems, circumstances, etc.

However, there are certain factors that make it more likely or less likely your relationship can be salvaged.  Here are 5 of the most important ones.

When Did Your Breakup Occur?

Was it yesterday?  A week ago?  3 months ago?  A decade ago?

Repairing relationships after years of being apart does happen, but it’s not a common occurrence.  You’re much more likely to repair your relationship if your breakup happened within the past few months.  Emotions are fresh.  Memories are fresh.  The longer the time gap, the harder it will be to reconnect.

How Long Were You Together?

A long-term relationship is typically easier to get back than a short-term one.  Why?  Because it’s hard to replace the type of bond that forms in a couple with lots of history together.

Let’s face it, dating someone new is always kind of weird and awkward at first.  It takes a while to learn each other’s tendencies and settle into habits together.  It’s difficult to form a happy relationship with someone that lasts for years.  So if you and your ex have been together for a long time, it works in your favor and you have a better chance of getting him or her back.

Why Did You Break Up?

This one is pretty simple to understand.  The more “fixable” your problems are, the greater the chance of getting your ex back.  For example, was it one argument that led to the breakup?  Was it one single event that can be changed?  Was there one pattern of behavior or “sticking point” that could be fixed with some counseling?

It will be much easier to get your ex back if the problems in the relationship are things that can be resolved.  If the two of you don’t agree on anything anymore or have grown in two different directions over the years, then you may be two completely different people that simply aren’t a good fit anymore.   Likewise, something like cheating or abuse may not be fixable in your ex’s opinion.  In that case, you’ll need to accept their decision, let them go, and move on.

Is Your Ex Apathetic Toward You?

Hate is not the opposite of love.  Apathy is.  You’re much more likely to get your ex back if they show strong emotion toward you (even if those emotions are negative), then you are if they show no emotion toward you at all.  If you don’t raise their emotional intensity level (good or bad), then they’ve probably already moved on, and it won’t be worth it to try and win them back.

To learn how to take your ex’s strong negative emotions and channel them back toward something positive for your relationship, watch this video or click here to read about Michael Fiore’s Text Your Ex Back program.

What Do You Both Want From Life?

It’s guaranteed you and your ex are not the same two people you were when you first got together.  As humans, we continually grow and evolve.  Sometimes we grow together.  Other times we grow apart.

Your ex is more likely to come back to you if you currently share the same life goals.  If, on the other hand, you’re ready for children, but your ex is extremely focused on a career, then it may never work out.  You need more than just chemistry.  You also need timing.  And, as they say, “Timing is a real bitch.”

Can Exercise Get Rid Of Diabetes?

Man And Woman Stretching Before Exercising

Staying active is an integral part of beating diabetes!

Can exercise get rid of diabetes? Great question.

It’s already been thoroughly documented that a properly balanced diet can help keep diabetes under control and that exercise can have a positive effect on a person’s overall health. But up until recently, there were very few studies done on the effects of exercise directly on diabetes.

As more studies commenced over time, it quickly became clear there exists a positive direct relationship between physical activity and diabetes. Studies show that exercise, when combined with weight loss and a balanced diet, can reduce the risk of type 2 diabetes by about 58 percent.

If you’re currently struggling with diabetes or you have a history of the ailment in your family and are looking to avoid it, this new information may be the missing piece to the puzzle you’ve been looking for.

Many treatment options are now available to help diabetics live a normal life. One of the most popular is called Diabetes Destroyer. You can read about it here: http://newspapercat.org/diabetes-destroyer-review-does-david-andrews-3-step-pancreas-jumpstart-trick-really-reverse-diabetes/

Before you begin your own exercise regimen, be sure to talk to your doctor to see if you’re physically fit enough for physical activity and if your blood sugar is stable enough to engage in exercise without putting your overall health at risk (the risk of hypoglycemia in diabetic patients goes up during physical activity).

Blood Glucose Control

Most importantly, physical activity done on a regular basis improves blood glucose levels. Certain factors, such as how long you exercise, alter how much your blood glucose is affected. This is because the physical activity allows your body to better process the insulin in your body.

As a result of this sensitivity to insulin, your blood glucose will be lower for a period of time. It should be noted that every person is different and your results might be different from other individuals. You can see the personal effects exercise has on your blood glucose by checking your levels before and after physical activity.

Generally speaking, your body has to fuel itself in order to perform any physical activity. This fuel comes from the food you eat as well as alternates like free fatty acids. When the body increases its fuel consumption, it relies more on muscle glycogen, fat, and glucose. This process helps keep your blood glucose levels even.

Weight Loss

It’s no secret that regular exercise along with a healthy diet leads to weight loss and/or weight maintenance. This will help control diabetes, too.

By losing weight, you can improve your body’s insulin sensitivity, making it easier to control blood sugar levels. While studies regarding diabetes and weight loss due to exercise are a bit muddled by other factors, it’s safe to say controlled weight loss caused by exercise can only have a positive effect on your diabetes.


Most diabetics are given medication to help regulate glucose levels. If your glucose levels are naturally regulated through exercise and a proper diet, you may be able to limit the amount of insulin or oral medications you have to take on a daily basis. The important thing is that you regularly monitor your levels so you know how your body is being affected by both the exercise regimen and the medication(s).

So can exercise get rid of diabetes? Probably not completely on its own, but it definitely helps. Exercise can even delay and/or prevent the onset of diabetes in people who have a family history of the ailment.

How To Make A Woman Want To Be Your Girlfriend

It is not uncommon for men to find themselves in a situation where they are friends with a woman, but want a little more from the relationship. The ideal situation would be one where the girl wants to be your girlfriend herself, without you having to make the first move.  This is not always easy though, and it may require you to work a little on yourself.

So how do you make a woman want to be your girlfriend? Newspaper Cat (www.newspapercat.org) suggests using a proven program like the Girlfriend Activation System to catch and keep her interest.  But for men who don’t have that option, here are some tips that can help.

Be A Good Friend

guy and girl friends having fun

Starting off as “just friends” isn’t always a bad thing…

Men and women can be great friends, but is the friendship ever purely platonic? There are differing views on this.

Some men, in fact, are scared to get into a woman’s friend zone, as that is associated with non-sexual or non-romantic feelings. This is not always so.

Women are sensitive, and desire men who are understanding. Who would fit that bill better than a man who is a friend?

The Telegraph reports that men and women who have been friends before entering into a romantic relationship are more likely to be happy. Despite what you may have heard before, being her friend first is not always a bad thing.  The trick is to be her friend and not her doormat while creating boundaries that keep the flirting and sexual tension alive.

Make Time For Her

Once you are friends, making time for her is absolutely critical. Instead of being with her when an empty time slot allows, make time to be with her. This is an excellent way to make her feel that you actually desire to be close to her, and want to spend some quality time.

From their years of experience with relationships and trying to make good matches, Match.com has compiled a list of things that help a girl feel special. Making time for her is considered one of the most important.

Show Her You’re Ready For A Commitment

She may not be interested in anything really serious, but women always like knowing that the men in their lives are willing to commit to a relationship long term.   Women want to be with someone dependable and someone who can make them feel secure. Show her that you are all these things, and she will want to be your girlfriend.

Christine Hassler, a life coach and professional speaker, explains in an article how it is important for women to choose someone who chooses them back. For women who want to be in loving and committed relationships, any signs that you are not ready for a long term commitment, is a complete let down. This can cause her to turn away from you, even if she loves you.

These tips may seem slightly intimidating at first, but if you are really interested in a woman, and want her to be your girlfriend, these are the things you may need to do. In fact, these are the foundations of a strong and loving relationship and one that every man and woman longs for.

So start it right, and reap the benefits for the rest of your life.

How To Get A Girl Emotionally Addicted To You

If you’ve ever searched online for advice about how to get a girl emotionally addicted to you, then you are definitely not alone.  For some men, they’re speaking in metaphor; they just want to develop the kind of chemistry and magnetism that makes them irresistible. Others are more literal and think the only way they can get or keep a woman is
via some type of emotional or psychological trickery.

Not surprisingly, there’s plenty of self-styled ‘experts’ out there anxious to sell them advice on how to keep a girl ‘hooked’ via hypnosis, mind games, and other manipulative techniques.  This article at Have You Seen Him suggests you don’t need any of that stuff to get and keep the girl you’re after.

It’s important to keep in mind that men looking for ‘emotional addiction techniques‘ are looking for a ‘shortcut’ to fix a complex problem. It’s easy to be sympathetic to men who lack the strength of identity or self-confidence to meet women. It’s much more difficult when these ‘lovelorn’ men are too lazy or impatient to do the work necessary to become a better person.

Turning to a ‘guru’ for ’emotional addiction’ guidance is like a bankrupt person calling a psychic for advice on how to win the lottery. They get the essence of the problem but still don’t understand the real reason they’re in this situation.

Addiction As A Metaphor

man and woman in love and emotionally addicted to each other

Being in love is a form of romantic addiction.

In most cases, the term ‘addiction’, as it relates to inter-gender relationships, is used in a symbolic manner.  In a relationship with strong romantic or sexual attraction, the need of one person for the other is superficially similar to an ‘addiction’. It’s no more literal than terms like ‘head over heels’. It’s just colorful verbiage for the excitement of being in love.

Men who have experience with women understand that ‘addiction’ isn’t a literal term. Men who don’t have the strength of personality or confidence to attract women, however, don’t understand this concept.

In the same way that they try to ‘act like’ they are ‘interesting’ or an ‘alpha male,’ they misunderstand the how’s and why’s of this ersatz ‘addiction’. They mistakenly believe that a strong feeling of attraction by a woman toward a man has to be a result of emotional manipulation or similar trickery.

Addiction As A Way Of Life

The formal definition of what the term ‘addiction‘ means is a subject of continual debate among psychiatrists. The general idea, however, is that ‘addiction’ is when an inherently pleasant activity becomes a compulsion that negatively impacts a person’s well being and day to day life function.

That’s a very simplistic definition of a complex term, but it should make it evident that it’s not a healthy state of being. There’s no doubt that humans can fall prey to some form of addiction to another person. It’s also true that given the right set of circumstances a person can essentially ‘force’ someone to become addicted to them.

This type of ‘addiction’ and ‘manipulation’ is the dynamic that underpins the relationship between a pimp and his women, as well as a religious cult and its members. In both cases, they seek out people with specific vulnerabilities and then manipulatively exploit them.

It’s ethically detestable, of course, but it’s undeniable that those who can successfully do it have high levels of charisma, confidence, and an ability to quickly ‘profile’ their victims. In other words, a few tips or a ‘program’ from a dating guru won’t enable a socially awkward man to ‘manipulate’ a woman.

Addiction Doesn’t Lead To A Happy Ending

It’s virtually impossible for a person lacking in confidence to manipulate a woman into an emotional addiction. But assuming they could, then what?

The ‘end game’ is the problem that men who are awkward with woman invariably encounter. Even if they could fake, manipulate, hypnotize, or otherwise trick a woman into dating them–or even being addicted to them–at some point they’ll have to reveal themselves for who they really are.

There is a false syllogism implicit in the ‘techniques’ and ‘systems’ from most dating gurus.  The gullible and desperate men who ‘buy in’ to them are hoping that by imitating certain characteristics of men with a strong sense of identity, they’ll become one themselves.

It doesn’t work that way–you can only ‘act’ self-assured and socially fluent for so long unless there’s legitimate substance behind it.

Are You Attracting Partners Just Like You?

Are you attracting people that are the opposite of what you are looking for in a partner? Do they have qualities that don’t appeal to you, whether that means they party, don’t have direction, work too much or are obsessive?

If this has been happening often and you don’t know what’s wrong, then you might want to think about whether or not you’re attracting people that are just like you.

It’s actually quite common that we attract people who are mirror images of ourselves, who share the same likes, personality traits and even qualities. If you do notice that you share some of the same traits with your past partners, then it may be time to re-evaluate your core values.

Thinking About Yourself

What type of person are you? Do you need a lot of attention? Do you want a long-term relationship? Do you like to do things spontaneously rather than planned out?

Think about what you like, what type of values you have and some of the major personality traits that you like in yourself. After that, consider some of the things that you’d like to change, whether that means obsessing about things a little bit less or trying to change your anger so that it doesn’t control you.

It’s important to get to know yourself better so that you know what you stand for, who you are and what you can bring to a relationship.

What’s Next?

Now that you know more about yourself, it’s time to be clear on who you want, but also who you need.  While you might want someone who makes a lot of money and looks great, is that what you need?

When you are looking for the one, you have to think about what type of person you’ll want to be with well into the future. For example, would you be willing to date someone if they had a great job, but also had a really bad temper?

You can’t just name one thing that you’re looking for in someone else, because there are always going to be compromises that you’ll have to make. It’s important to look at what you want in a person that you’ll spend your future with, rather than someone you’ll just date for a couple of months.

Finding The ONE

The "One"

Finding “The One” doesn’t happen overnight…

When looking for “the one”, you should be clear on what you’re offering so that you know what you will bring to the relationship. Remember to act like the type of person you want in return, whether that means acting trustworthy, being a free-spirit, trying new things or being serious and goal-oriented.

If you aren’t giving off what you want in return, then you very well may end up attracting the same people over and over again, and that’s not going to lead you to the type of serious relationship that you’re looking for.

Once you start doing things differently, you’ll be able to evaluate your future partners better by seeing if they match your personality traits and overall values.

Dating isn’t going to be easy and finding “the one” won’t happen overnight, but when you’re honest with yourself and what type of values/traits you’re giving off, then things can become a lot more simple.

3 Simple Tricks To Get Her Thinking About You Sexually

Whether you are a new acquaintance or someone who has been relegated to the “friend zone”, there are a number of ways of landing a woman. Below are three simple ways to get her thinking about you sexually, and perhaps even successfully take her to bed.

Update Your Wardrobe

If she always sees you in office attire, be sure to update your wardrobe and add a few casual clothing items that highlight your assets. That is, if you happen to be in good shape and do not have qualms about showing a bit of skin, you can start wearing jeans that accentuate your gluts as well as shirts that show off your chest and/or arms. Ladies do appreciate men who take care of themselves, particularly their physical well being.

Conversely, some women are more attracted to men who exude authority, which would mean investing in a couple of good suits (three-piece suits are best to wear for a more impactful executive effect). It really boils down to the lady’s specific tastes.

Find Out What Scent She Likes

Smell is one of the most underrated senses, but it in fact makes the most impact as far as stimulation is concerned. Females react quite strongly to smells, especially those that they associate with masculinity.

Subtle hints of a scent combined with your natural (clean) smell can do wonders for your sex appeal, regardless of your physical stature. Girls generally love men who smell great, but even more so for those who carry the ladies’ preferred scent. Some ladies do not care much for cologne or perfume, and prefer the more subtle smell of body wash. Be sure to find out what kind of scent she likes and make it a point to wear it when meeting with her.

Drop Subtle Hints That You Find Her Sexually Attractive

Drop subtle hints that get her hot with anticipation...

Drop subtle hints that get her hot with anticipation…

There is always a risk when a guy becomes too forward with a girl, especially when mutual trust has yet to develop.  However, dropping hints about how you find her alluring and intensely attractive would definitely score you points and get your closer to thinking about you in a naughtier light.

Lingering stares (nothing longer than 5 seconds to reduce the creep factor) are a silent but effective tool, and so is short but slightly suggestive messages, be it via email, SMS, or voice mail.  Women like to feel wanted and for the most part, it is necessary to make them realize you find their existence stimulating.

To get her thinking about you sexually does not take as much effort as many assume. In fact, a subtle and less blatant approach usually works better. The goal is to make them want you to a point that they might even make the first move towards becoming intimate.

4 Necessary Skills To Get Any Girl You Want

The very first thing that you need to do if you are planning to attract any girl is to get rid of the notion that everything can be done with good looks and money.  To get the girl you want, you need to be informed, and get the right amount of information.

Some guys make the mistake of being overly predictable.  Reality is, girls are smart, and a lot of things run inside their mind, including knowing all the possible punch lines that a guy can use during an initial approach.  If you are lucky enough to be really attractive, a girl may fake her reaction but deep inside, she knows your intention the moment you look her way.

Tip #1: Appear Mysterious

Girls understand what it means for a guy to be ‘a man of few words’. Girls dig it.

To counteract this natural attraction of women to guys who show traces of being mysterious, you can start by avoiding too much talking.  However, keep in mind that you can never overdo being mysterious, unless you want to appear as a stalker or a psycho hiding something.

Just try to be yourself, never attempt to hide what you really are.  Girls like honest guys.

Tip #2: Be A Nice Gentleman: Chivalry Still Counts

hot-womanAny girl would fall for a guy who acts in a gentleman way. This includes opening the door, waiting for the girl to sit down first, stuff like that.

True, we are in the modern age, but these little acts can actually crawl deep into the heart of a girl.  However, girls are not fooled by pretensions and acting nice.

Be consistent and natural. You should not just act as a gentleman on your first date, but should try to do so until it becomes natural to you. This will benefit you big time!

Tip #3: Develop a Good Sense of Humor

Wait!  Having a sense of humor does not translate to acting stupid or becoming a clown. Humor is best presented in a very natural way.

If you are not naturally humorous, be observant on the things that can make a girl laugh.  Then, work on it.  Make honest but fun comments, and observe the reaction.

If you don’t get a positive response, make the most out of it and turn it into another laughing trip.  Again, do not overdo it, if you want to keep your girl.

Tip #4: Make Your Intentions Known From The Start

Girls believe in romance.

After all, what woman doesn’t want to be swept off her feet by Prince Charming?

Girls believe that guys should know how to listen, and how to become a real friend in times of need.  However, if you are interested in more than just friendship with a girl, then you need to make your intentions known early on.  Otherwise you risk landing in the friend zone.

This can easily be accomplished through your body language, touching, and sexual flirtation early on in the relationship.

4 Proven Secrets For Dating Hotter Women

Most men pray for two things; financial success and hot women. It is however important to note that very few men are blessed with one let alone both of these things. Most men follow money thinking that it will automatically attract hot women. However, this isn’t always the case.

So what is the secret to attracting and dating hot women?

If you’re interested in the answer to this question look no further.  Below are 4 proven secrets to dating hotter women.

1. Make Yourself A Catch

This is undoubtedly one of the most important secrets to consider when you want to know how to date hotter women. Since hotter women are the ultimate catch for men in the dating scene, you must also transform yourself into a catch. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that hotter women will settle for less. This is far from the truth. You must look like the man hotter women date to get their attention and a chance to date them. This calls for a complete makeover.

If you’re not physically fit, hit the gym. If your clothes are outdated, get a new wardrobe. It is however important to avoid overspending. You can still make yourself a catch without blowing your bank a/c. It is also important to be ambitious. Hot women love ambitious men. If you aren’t successful already, you should be working towards it.

2. Avoid direct compliments

Now that you look the part, the next step is approaching hotter women. It is important to note that hot women get compliments all the time so offering more compliments won’t set you apart from the crowd. Instead, you should focus more on teasing, being funny and making her see your indifference or awesomeness. Instead of telling her how beautiful
she is, you could tell her that you like women like her. You should also make it known from the start that you want to know if she is good for you and not the other way round. Using this approach will get you further as opposed to using direct compliments which she is used to.

3. Don’t beg for attention

womaninlingerieThis is another important secret to dating hotter women. Contrary to popular belief, you don’t get a hot woman to like you by begging her for attention. At the start, you should meet her only when you are free as opposed to skipping important appointments for her

Hot women are attracted to men who have their own thing going. Her beauty shouldn’t intimidate you or turn you into a ”wimp”. In fact, you shouldn’t appear like you are too available. The first dates should be short (a few hours maybe) and don’t insist on dropping her off at her place. Show some interest in her but not too much. This is the best way
to create attraction with hot women.

4. Use mind games and indirect communication

This is the last most important secret for dating hotter women in this list. Since hot women are the ultimate catch, you can’t afford to use regular tactics used on average women. You must take your game a notch higher.

One of the best ways of doing this is using mind games and indirect communication. Avoid communicating directly with hot women as much as possible. Forget all that advice about communicating openly with women. It doesn’t take you far with hotter women.

You need to make her think harder about what you really meant with certain lines and phrases. Indirect communication is perfect for making her think about you long after you are gone. You should also use mind games. For instance, when she suggests a date and a time, you can say you’ll be busy even though you’ll be free.

The aim here is to avoid looking like a typical guy. Because you are a catch, you can’t be available all the time. Using this secret effectively will definitely increase your chances of dating the hottest women around you.


In a nutshell, the above secrets summarize the most important secrets to consider when you want to date hot women.  Although there may be other secrets that can help you further, the above secrets have been tested and proven to work wonders.

How To Get A Girlfriend Even If You Are Ugly

Finding a girlfriend is not the easiest thing in the world or at least guys think so.  We all believe that appearance is the key of success in the dating world, but it’s not always like that.

Don’t forget that women are more spiritual than men which mean that they don’t care so much about appearance.  Women can easily be attracted by someone’s personality.  So let’s see how to get a girlfriend even if you’re ugly.

First of all, be confident!  Self-confidence is highly appreciated by women because it shows that you have nothing to be afraid of and you know exactly what you want without second thoughts. So always make the first move, go and talk to her, but keep it simple.

There’s no need for fancy pick-up lines, just be yourself!  You have nothing to lose after all. Secondly, a good sense of humor is always necessary to make a girl like you. But be careful since no one likes a clown, so don’t go too far, just be funny and make her laugh!

A smart joke can be a sign of intelligence as well and women love intelligent men. Number three, you don’t have to play the bad boy to catch her attention, that’s a myth!

Dating Very Attractive Women

Women love kind and caring guys, so she might like you more if she saw you help an old woman cross the street. That’s why you should always be nice to other people. A woman feels much better when she’s in public with a polite guy because she feels safer.

On the other hand, if she goes out with a rude guy, she knows that the guy’s behavior might embarrass her in front of other people!

Another good idea would be to be creative. Think outside the box and find an original way to approach her, maybe try something romantic. Like I mentioned before, women are spiritual, so the fact that you puzzled yourself to get to her will captivate her. I’m pretty sure that she will give you a chance!

Of course, it goes without saying that you must go out with your friends because having friends mean that you are social, you like people and more importantly, people like you! That’s a good way to let a girl know that you’re an interesting person and you can hang out with other people.

Last but not least, you should always look good!  Although you’re not an Armani underwear model, you can still take care of yourself. A woman never forgives a man who neglects himself. You don’t have to be a “10” to wear nice clothes, smell good and have white teeth and shiny hair. So always take a look in the mirror before you go out!

To sum up, appearance is an important thing when you go out, but nothing compares with a fine personality. Good looking guys are not the only ones who have the right to have a girlfriend and most importantly, girls know that as well. So all you have to do if you’re not an angel looking man is to be yourself and believe that your character can charm a woman!

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